Who’s your role model? This was one of those questions that used to strike fear into my little middle-schooler heart. Cue the theme song from Arthur’s a word from us kids segment: “A person admired for their qualities and achievements…”
Inspirational Figures
As time progressed, I compiled a list of respectable figures and rehearsed responses I could recite to whomever inquired. Martin Luther King, Harriet Tubman, Nelson Mandela, Maya Angelou and Oprah were my go-to role models. I’d also throw Thud Butt in the mix for comedic relief. You know? The rotund kid with the puffy cheeks from Hook.
A New Definition of Role Models
As I transitioned into high school and college life, role models became less dignified in conduct and academic distinction. Nowadays, individuals advocating hyper sexual messages and acts of violence are elevated to God-like status by most tweens and teens.
My goal is not to vilify anyone, but rather denounce what has become our new normal — which is the idea that unsavory behavior trumps hard work and integrity.
There are many people I admire, like Michelle Obama. Her message is a strong one: Women and men everywhere should grow up believing they can do anything. What I like most about Michelle is her ability to be empathetic. She often recounts personal anecdotes about her middle-class upbringing, challenges and simple joys in life — which allows her to resonate with people from all walks of life.
Be a Role Model
I urge you to look beyond the many curated Instagram posts and realize the people claiming to be living their best lives are just as flawed as you and I. Go out there and create your own narrative. Be your own role model. Perhaps one day, your success, honesty or even disappointment might inspire another person to take action in their own life.
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